You've just been told your child has Conduct Disorder or maybe you have been living with CD for a while now. What can you do to prepare for the next seemingly inevitable crisis?
- Have a safety plan in place. Don't have one? We are happy to design a plan specifically for your family.
- Gather your child's medical records and put then in an easily accessible place, preferably where the child cannot find it. We love binders for this.
- Keep a daily log or journal detailing your child's behaviors, stressors, and other events. Remain as unemotional as possible. Never allow your child access to this!
- Keep a hard copy list of contacts. Include names, addresses, telephone numbers, etc. Put this in your binder and keep it updated. If you need a sitter for other children in the home, have those contacts in more than one place. It's hard to find these things under stress.
- Include a summary page for your binder. Add tabs to make specific areas easy to locate. Include a list of your child's current medications, if applicable.
- If you need help setting up a binder or log of behaviors, please contact us for assistance.
- Knowing whom to call for help depends on the situation. Is your child threatening to harm themselves or others? Call 911.
For other situations, consult your safety plan or call someone you trust for assistance if necessary. Look for ways to de-escalate the situation, if possible. This can be challenging when dealing with Conduct Disorder.
- Have a "go bag" ready. Include a change of clothing for you and your child, phone chargers, something to read, extra pens/pencils, cards or other activities for your child while you wait.
- Do your research.
- a. Have a list of hospitals ready in the event this is something you can handle on your own. Keep in mind that not all hospitals allow admissions without a physician referral.
- b. Understand what makes a good RTC (residential treatment center) and what does not. Have a list of those centers near you. If you need assistance, Compass has a list of resources for families.
- Know what is best for YOUR child and advocate from that standpoint.
As always we are here to help!